Therefore the younger girl can easily move on with her life and date another guy when she is ready to start dating seriously without the older guy catching feelings and the reverse is true. Sponsor relationships are more often than not more beneficial to the younger girl since whenever she needs something, the sponsor she is dating usually takes care of it.
A girl’s issues can range from small things like airtime, perfume, clothes, shoes, hair, nails to bigger things like rent, tuition, insurance among others that the sponsor is willing to sort out for her only if she dates him. Younger girls often want to have fun and who better to have fun with than a guy that does not mind spending a couple of tens of thousands of shillings in one night.
One does not necessarily have to have an intimate relationship with a girl for him to be considered a sponsor.
Older men usually allow the younger girls that they sponsor to do whatever they want without questioning them about their whereabouts or what they are doing or whom they are with.
This is a kind of freedom most girls want especially in college. Sponsors always have an understanding with the younger girls that their relationship is purely for fun unless they both start developing feelings for each other along the way.
If you don't like the rules, ask calmly about changing them.
They may have rules about things like when you can be alone with a date.